Child Support Showdown

Episode 1/3 Part 2 "Take Care of Your Kids: Child Support"

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DJ Kornbread tackles Trump's controversial proposal that would allow child support payers to claim children on taxes, arguing that this unfairly benefits those who often pay only the minimum while custodial parents shoulder most expenses and responsibilities. The discussion explores modern relationship dynamics, step-parenting challenges, age-gap dating manipulation, and how zodiac signs might influence relationship behaviors.

• Child support responsibilities should be based on actual needs, not minimum payments
• Treating step-children equally is essential when entering relationships with parents
• Imbalanced treatment of biological versus step-children is a major relationship red flag
• Modern relationships suffer from unrealistic expectations about financial responsibility
• Age-gap dating often involves manipulation tactics by older partners toward younger ones
• Zodiac signs can provide insights into relationship compatibility and challenges
• Karma eventually catches up to those who mistreat others in relationships. So, whether you're a dad, mom, or just someone who cares about the next generation, stay tuned as we discuss the ins and outs!!

Chapters

• 0:00 Trump's Child Support Tax Proposal
• 4:20 Responsibilities of Step-Parents
• 8:35 Relationship Dynamics Today
• 12:25 Age Gaps and Manipulation
• 15:40 Zodiac Signs in Relationships
• 18:15 Episode Wrap-Up and Next Show Preview

Transcript

Speaker 1: 0:00

The Shit Show. The podcast starts now with DJ Kornbread, aka the Empress. What's up y'all? It's your girl. Dj Kornbread, aka the Empress.

Speaker 1: 0:21

Ep3, relationship, part 2, child Support for Women and Men. Let's talk about it. I'm just going to just put it out there. I don't know if y'all been listening, y'all been seeing it on social media, but they say Trump is putting out something that's saying that if a guy is on child support and he's paying child support, or vice versa, whoever is paying the child support will be the person that can claim the child on their income tax, which is totally no. I don't even know what to say. I feel like that is just. That's not. They shouldn't even do nothing like that, because half of the men that are on child support, or vice versa, they're barely paying the minimum Nope and they're not actually paying what they're supposed to be paying Nope. And then it takes so much to take care of these kids that this I mean, it's not even a thing Like I feel like I don't even know why that should even be thrown out there like that. Because you should? It should be so many factors that go into that. You should have to look at the woman's income, the man's income and see who's making this, this and that, and even then I still feel like whoever has the child is the one that should be able to carry the child on their income tax, especially if they're not, you're not together or y'all aren't living in the same house, because you're the one that's taking all the time and paying all these extra fees on everything else and having to spend all this extra money when you're not getting the amount that you're supposed to be getting for the child amount that you're supposed to be getting for the child. So I don't understand why that would even be, would even come out on social media, mainly on tiktok, but it's just crazy. I feel like you know that's not. They shouldn't even do nothing like that, and half of the men are females that are on child support. You're mad because you're on child support. But my question are you doing what you need to do to take care of this child? Were you doing what you needed to do to take care of this child before it even got to that point?

Speaker 1: 2:36

Some people they give people chances, you know, to take care of their kids and do what they need to do, but then people don't do what they need to do or they're not showing any kind of effort to even try. So people might give them chance after chance after chance to just see okay, let me see how they're gonna act, let me see how they're gonna, you know, if they're gonna step up and be a woman or be a man or do this and that. And if you're not doing that and that person has gave you chance after chance and you're basically letting it be known like you don't give a fuck, you don't care, okay, so if they go, put you on child support, I feel like that's deserved. That's deserved. You should be on child support because, especially if a person is giving you chances and you're not even doing the bare minimum, just because you're trying to go off of what you feel like they have, without actually knowing what they have, is ridiculous. And then where did this come from? When people are you just oh well, I feel like this person, you make more money than me, or you did this and that, so I'm not gonna take care of my responsibility, or I'm not gonna help take care of the child, or I should just do the bare minimum and not even do this, or come see the child, or you know anything, because of how much money you make. That shit is so stupid. To me it don't make no type of sense that a person would even think that way when it comes to a child. That's their blood. You know that. It's not. It doesn't matter if it's step or your biological kids. I mean, I just feel like if you there and you was there for it and it happened, then you should be taking care of the child across the board.

Speaker 1: 4:21

Now, when it comes to step kids, I don't really know how I feel with that. I feel like if you are with that person or y'all are in the same house together, rather you say, or whatever, I feel like, yes, if you take on that responsibility because you're with that person and they have kids, then your kids are my kids. So I'm going to treat your kids like my kids, of course, because we're together, we're in the same household. But best believe, my kids, my biological kids, whether they live here or not, you are going to treat them with the utmost respect and treat them the same exact way that I treat you, that I treat you when we're here at home or we're with us, me being in a relationship with your mom or your dad, or whatever the case may be, you're going to treat my kids the same exact way.

Speaker 1: 5:20

Now, if I'm in a relationship and my kids aren't being treated the way they're supposed to be treated, and then the other person's kids, the step kids, are treating my kids a certain kind of way, then we need to fix that. It's an issue. There's an issue because it's not about to be. No, my kids getting more stuff, or my kids, you treat my kids this certain kind of way and then your kids you treat this kind of way. No, everybody gets treated the same. Everybody is is loved the same. It ain't. No, this person's better than this person, or whatever the case may be. Everybody is going to get their time and everybody's is. It should be shared amongst every each other. These days.

Speaker 1: 5:53

You have to, even you have to look out. You know, watch that, because there's some stepkids that they feel like okay, well, if you don't live with us and I'm with your dad's, uh, your dad is my stepdad, or your mom is my stepmom, and when she's not around you like that, or we're not around you like that, we just come see you. Everything is supposed to go the way we want it to go. This is our. You know dad forget you, or this is our mom forget you, or whatever. Everything gonna go how we want to go over here and then you just treat you treat y'all however you want to treat y'all. You get the scraps, type shit. No, that shit does not work like that, I know. You get the scraps, you get the little bit of pieces of doll, biscuits and all that type of shit.

Speaker 1: 6:38

No, nigga, everybody need to be, everybody needs to be treated the same way and with the like I said, respect, don't be coming over my house or coming over this person's house, or I'm not going to come over y'all's house and damage anything, be taking anything, be doing anything. That's not something that I would do in my own house or when I'm going to see someone, or on my face and my kids were coming around and you know, just show love, sim, or whatever the case may be. No, none of that is going on, especially not no thieving shit. No, no, taking stuff. No, I'm about to come over there to see y'all and oh, hey, how you doing? Um, yeah, we came over here to visit. We're going to be here for a couple of days.

Speaker 1: 7:23

This is me, but while I'm at your house. I'm taking shit, stealing stuff and you know sneaking in here, taking money and stuff is missing out of here and, oh, I can't find this shoe or I can't find these shorts, these shirts, this, this net, this jewelry gone, this backpack gone, this wig gone, I don't care what it is. These lashes gone. Uh, these his pants gone, his t-shirt, sweater gone, anything. These designer shoes gone, these nike shoes gone, these walmart shoes gone. It can be anything. I'm not gonna come take shit out of your house. I'm not coming to try to come over your house to see what you got. So I'm gonna try to get you to give me some of your shit, especially if I know that I'm already taking it.

Speaker 1: 8:10

If it's somebody that's doing some shit like that, no, you should not be going over other people's houses taking shit from family, from, uh, step sisters, step mom, step daughters, any of that, vice versa, you know, step son, step-son, step-dad, none of that. It should be none of that. Everybody should be on the same tree and everybody the same exact way. There should be no favoritism shown anywhere or none of that.

Speaker 1: 8:36

Then, when it comes into this like relationship thing the relationships men these days I don't know what it is. They just feel like everything is supposed to go their way. I don't know if it's a zodiac sign thing or what. They feel like everything is supposed to go their way. They feel like, if you're not doing this to the T, okay, I can't use this person or I can't get what I want out of this person. So I'm going to have to move around or I'm going to try to get out of her what I can get out of her and make it seem like it's good for this certain amount of time, and then after that I'm going to start acting this kind of way so she can just move around once I get what I want, or get what I need or accomplish what I want. And they try to get an attitude when they see you happy with somebody else after the fact, because they didn't want to act right or they were on some like slick shit or trying to do some under the under the roof type shit, scared and you know it. Just, I don't understand guys these days. I really don't relationships be so hard. That's why it's like now I don't know what's in the water, whatever's in the water, just it didn't dry and suck that. Relationships, the relationships ain't the same, no more.

Speaker 1: 9:51

And then people, morals and the things they stand for and the way they feel like they should treat a woman and the way that a woman should treat a man, or whatever the case may be. Everything is totally different. It is not the same, everything is different. Men feel like they should be treated this kind of way, a woman should be treated this kind of way. Nothing should be on a 50 50 type thing. You got women that feel like, oh, I should do zero percent, he should do a hundred percent. And you got men that feel like I should do zero percent, she should do a hundred. Or because I make this much and she got this, probably got this much.

Speaker 1: 10:29

And now you're not even knowing exactly what this person is bringing in, because y'all not even living in a house together. Oh well, I need to bring. I bring in like 10 or 20% and you bring in the 80%. But then I mean and women, same thing with women. They feel like, oh well, if I can't talk to a dude that's going to be having me at these five-star restaurants to hand out my bills, or I can just sit here at home and chill. I don't know, I ain't barking up the wrong trailer, daddy. No, but see, it's not even all about that, it's not.

Speaker 1: 11:01

I feel like if you can't be with a person and be like 50 50 or you don't even have to do 50 50, it's like I don't even go off of that Q and a, say we together and we're in the same household, and to me it's like on some, you got it, I got it, I got it, you got it. It's like, uh, it's gonna get done regardless, type of thing, not, no, okay, well, let me see how much she bring His check going to be or what he say that he might not have. So I can try to hold back this amount and this is this net. Or let me try to ask her she can do this for me, because I know I want to buy this and I don't want to spend. I know once I spend my money on this part of my Beatles or this part of my rent or my car note, my Beatles, or this part of my rent or my car note, then I ain't gonna have no money to buy these shoes and dudes are all over the place these days, and women are too, especially like the age ranges, like I don't know what it is and I'm starting to feel like I think that's why older dudes, I think that's why older dudes are wanting to talk more to or interested in younger women these days, because they know that that they can manipulate them and do what they want them to do.

Speaker 1: 12:15

They know they're going to do what they want them to do. They know they can say whatever they want to say to get them to do what they want them to do. And these days the girls have no moral, they don't care. So they feel like if I can be in the eyes of this fine man and he older sugar daddy type, this, this and that to them in their eyes, they'll do whatever, they'll give it up, they'll, you know whatever, sell their dream or whatever. And then do be sitting over here, the older guy, wondering why, dang this little shawty. You know I tried to holler her this, this and that and she really awesome, just trying to use my money. Then you wonder why you got robbed and set up and all that not for everybody, not Not everybody. Not all young women are that way, some of them, some of them.

Speaker 1: 13:00

So I mean, I just feel like if you for relationships, if you in your age range. Stay in your age range, stay in your brackets, stop moving around trying to talk to these young women or girls, teenagers and I say teenagers because some of these people that you know how old you are, you be trying to talk to 19 year olds. I'm like she, she old love, she, old love, she, she, uh, she legal, just because they don't pass 18, because your ass is in your 30s and she 19, you need to sit your ass down. So if you in your high 30s and this girl is 19 years old, no, I need your ass with you. I be seeing some guys they be walking around here girls they be looking young, like they could be their damn daughters, and then some of them be having daughters that's that age or around that age. But then they'll go out and sneak and go to the movies with a girl the age of their daughter or a little bit older, like two years older. They age, which is so weird and that's just so pedophilic to me. I never understood it.

Speaker 1: 14:07

But yeah, we was on a relationship thing, part one on New Year's. I don't know if y'all checked that out. You have to go back and check that out and we were doing more on. We were talking about more of the relationship and the Zodiac side, which I feel like you know. A lot of that has to do with relationships. A lot of that, a lot of goes into that when it has to do with the relationships. Sometimes it does, sometimes it doesn't, but majority of time I feel like it does because, like they were saying on that episode, leos to me I'm always gonna say lion, leos, leos, be lion and playing victim. You know so it's just like I don't know.

Speaker 1: 14:45

They said gemini's have about nine, ten different personalities and stuff like that. Libras, we good people. They claim libras lie, but nah, we, we don't lie. You just ask us and we'll let you know. You know, sagittarius, is they cool? They said Pisces was cool. They said Taurus is nah. They said leave, taurus is alone. You know, scorpios they said nobody shake their hand, no problem, no, scorpios. Aries they said they cry a lot, but not not cry, baby, cry a lot, just so they can get stuff done how they want it done. You know the queer assist they said they was, they was okay. Uh, they demand they. You know they want their stuff, how they want their stuff and they'll drop you in the and drop you like a dime if they feel like it ain't right, you know.

Speaker 1: 15:27

So a lot, like I said, goes into relationships and zodiac signs and kids and everything. All I'm just going to say and just leave it at that, like if you call yourself one to be in a relationship with somebody and they have kids, make sure you do for their kids what you would do for your own. Don't get into a relationship with somebody and not treat their kids how you would treat your own, because I've went above and beyond for people's kids before and they have never done the same for mine, you know. So I used to look at it like, well, that's just me, I'm just. I love kids. I love, you know, doing stuff for kids. Everybody's kids love me when they get around me. I've always been the type of person that treats people's kids like they're my kids, rather, if I'm in a relationship or not, it can just be my homegirl's kids. That's just how I am when it comes to kids. But when you're in a relationship, you do what you do for a person that you're talking to, rather than y'all calling yourself. You know, that's my girl, that's my guy, whatever the case might be. If I'm sitting there and I do any and everything for your kids, but you can't show me that you'll do that for mine or you be low-key, awesome. Oh well, I just want to make sure my kids is good, forget her child, forget her kids. And it's no. Nah, that's a flag Now, like I didn't look at it that way beforehand. But no, if you're going through something like that, that's like a red flag, that is a flag, flag, flag on the play.

Speaker 1: 17:11

Because they really only around because they trying to see what they can get out of their situation and not really trying to be there for you or yours. And that's sad that some people are like that, but some of them are only there for it has to benefit them. If it's not benefiting them, then they like oh yeah, no, it's time to move around, or they're going to be there just for the time that it can benefit them. And then, when they're done getting what they need out of the situation in a relationship, they just up and move around, and that ain't cool. That is really not cool. And then people wonder why they get done so bad when they finally get around or meet somebody that they really think they like or really are interested in, and then that person ends up doing some messed up stuff to them or they end up being crazy, or it just doesn't go how they wanted it to go Because of the stuff that they have done to other people or in their other relationships, and karma is a bitch. So I don't know. I'm just going to have to sit down right there, cause we can go in and out on relationships all day long, but that's all I would say.

Speaker 1: 18:23

Y'all just stay tuned to the next episode. Um, we are going to have some special guests. Don't forget to hit us up on wwwfashishowthepodcastcom. You can check us out on iHeartRadio, spotify, amazon Music. I'm saying like everywhere. If you want to be a guest on the show, 530-464-5223. Make sure the next EP is coming up. We're going to be talking about talking to DJs, some celebrity DJs, special guest DJs. How is it to be a DJ as a female? How is it to be a DJ as a male? I got a show coming up. We're all barbers. I just stay tuned. Like I said, she showed a podcast. You're the mix with the one and only celebrity, dj Kornbred, aka the Empress. Thank you.